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Doing Well… But Still Not Okay

Online Therapy for Young Adults in New York

You're Functioning, But You Don’t Feel Like Yourself

You’ve checked the boxes: job, education, responsibilities. You keep moving through your day. But underneath it all, something feels off. You might feel numb, disconnected, or tired in a way that rest doesn’t fix. You’re not falling apart, but you’re also not okay.

Maybe it’s hard to explain to anyone else. You’re holding it all together on the outside while struggling to feel present, motivated, or emotionally grounded.

At Lenora: Art Therapy and Counseling, I work with young adults across New York who appear to be functioning but feel emotionally stuck. Even when life looks fine on the outside, it can feel heavy inside.

You Might Be Feeling:

  • Emotionally numb or disconnected from your life

  • Tired all the time, even if you're sleeping

  • Out of sync with your own feelings or identity

  • Easily overwhelmed by small tasks

  • Like you’re going through the motions but not in them

  • Lost in your head or zoning out without realizing it

This isn’t failure. It’s a signal from your nervous system that something needs care, not pushing.

Using a mix of art therapy, EMDR, and somatic-based tools, we explore what’s underneath the surface. Therapy helps you stop operating on autopilot and start feeling more present, supported, and emotionally clear.

Morning scene with newspaper, coffee mug, and pushpins on desk, symbolizing high-functioning anxiety and feeling emotionally off despite daily routines
Cozy, softly lit therapy office with natural tones, symbolizing a calm space for young adults feeling emotionally disconnected or off

Why This Might Be Happening

When your nervous system is overloaded or constantly in “survival mode,” you can end up feeling shut down, even if nothing’s technically wrong. Life transitions, unresolved emotions, or past experiences can all contribute.

Many young adults know this feeling: having to stay strong for too long, without space to fall apart, leading to quiet disconnection.

How Therapy Can Help

Therapy gives you space to reconnect with yourself without pressure to perform or explain everything right away. It’s a place to slow down and tune into what’s actually going on beneath the surface, especially if you’ve felt emotionally off for a while.

Together, we can:

  • Clarify your values, goals, and strengths

  • Work through the anxiety, self-doubt, or grief that comes with transition

  • Explore what you really want (not just what’s expected)

  • Build confidence and direction that feel grounded and sustainable

  • Learn tools for managing stress, comparison, and indecision

  • Use art therapy and somatic tools to access emotions that feel blocked or hard to name

  • Incorporate EMDR if past patterns are contributing to your disconnection

Why Work With Me

As a therapist who specializes in young adult mental health, I understand how confusing it can be to feel emotionally off when life looks fine on the outside. You're not broken or being dramatic. You might be carrying more than you realize or feeling disconnected without knowing why.

You deserve support that helps you slow down, understand what’s happening inside, and feel more connected to yourself again.

You Don’t Have to Stay Disconnected

Whether you’re feeling off, emotionally numb, or unsure what’s missing, therapy can help you reconnect with yourself in a way that feels real and sustainable. You don’t need to have it all figured out. You don’t need a clear reason to ask for support.

📍 Virtual therapy for young adults across New York and NYC
📅 Schedule your free 15-minute consultation today

Frequently Asked Questions

What if I don’t know exactly why I’m feeling off?

You don’t need to have all the answers before starting therapy. Many of my clients show up feeling “off” without being able to explain it. Together, we can explore what’s beneath the surface, whether it’s stress, trauma, life transitions, or something harder to name.

I don’t feel that bad, can therapy still help?

Of course. You don’t need to be in crisis to benefit from therapy. Many young adults feel emotionally flat, disconnected, or tired all the time without a clear reason. If something feels off, that’s enough. Therapy can help you understand what’s going on and feel more connected to yourself again.

What makes your approach different from traditional talk therapy?

I combine EMDR, art therapy, and somatic tools with a warm, grounded style that helps clients access deeper emotional shifts—not just surface-level insight. This means we can work on both what's happening now and what’s been carried for a long time.

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Lenora: Art Therapy and Counseling provides virtual therapy sessions  in

New York State and Beyond

350 N Bedford Rd #1052, Mt Kisco, NY 10549

845.777.7370

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